First off I am going to define Sabotage.
1. Destruction of property or obstruction of normal operations, as by civilians or enemy agents in time of war.
2. Treacherous action to defeat or hinder a cause or an endeavor; deliberate subversion.
Last night I was suppose to work 11pm-7:30am, I got dressed and all about to leave, but my sitter was not here. So, obviously I called the person to find out why they were not here. The person says to me oh I am in Philly. I don’t live too far from Philly, so its not like it would have hours to get to my house. I told this person a few days that I had to work this date and this time and they agreed to watch them. This person must think I am a total air head right because this person said I will come by in the morning to make sure they are up. That right there I have a problem with that. First of all anything can happen in eight hours and I am not comfortable to be leaving a 9 and 7 year old in the house by themselves like who does that? I believe that’s just right out reckless and if I were to do something like that and something happens in my household then I am going to be the one to get in trouble. So of course I stayed home.
I Believe this person is sabotaging what I am trying to accomplish which is trying to the things that me and children may need and want. I know I have to find another route in someone watching them because I need to make a living.
I am trying to put myself in the position where i won’t even need a baby sitter. That’s why I got into business for myself because to be honest with you some people you can’t even rely on not even your family. Shux not even that you can’t trust people like you want. The news is a daily reminder of that. Its just sad and trust me I know that this first hand.
I am going to expose something about my life. I used to work full time 3 shift as a CNA years ago and while I was working believing that my children were safe one of my children was molested by a 12 year old boy that lived in my sitter’s house. At the time my child was 6 years old and my other 2 children seen what happened they were 5 and 3. No child should have to go through something like that.
So, all of my children went to therapy, so they can get through the pain. To add to that one of my children was diagnosed with osteosarcoma which is a bone cancer and then 2 years later that same child died of the disease. That a lot for someone to go though. You know? Its amazing I am still pushing to do what I need to so and I didn’t go postal. To be honest going postal won’t solve anything if anything it will make it worse.
The way you make things get better is to do something positive in life and that is what I am doing.
Sometimes I believe people sabotage themselves in their future meaning they depend on their jobs and/or the government. They think that the job will always be there and the the government is going to take care of them. I am going to share one of the posts from facebook that one of my business posted I believe it was yesterday, I believe you will find this very interesting and also that this can happen to anyone even YOU. check it out!!
This is CRAZY and have been on my mind since this happen….
PLEASE READIt was Me, My Brother and my Cousin at my aunts house last month and I was telling him about what I do and said to him
Me: “Cousin , get in this business and let this be your Plan B because at any given moment they can let you go”
PLEASE READIt was Me, My Brother and my Cousin at my aunts house last month and I was telling him about what I do and said to him
Me: “Cousin , get in this business and let this be your Plan B because at any given moment they can let you go”
Him: Being Cocky…Said: “What I’m not going know where. I been with my job doing what I do for YEARS. I’m good at what I do. They not letting me go Boo ”
YESTERDAY …….
I spoke with him asking him how he was doing , whats been up with him etc.
He was telling me that he was depressed. I ask Why. He said he think his job Letting him go. Now remind you he work $20.00 a hour Full time so most people would think that he have a good “JOB”. I let him vent and stop him by humbly saying to him
He was telling me that he was depressed. I ask Why. He said he think his job Letting him go. Now remind you he work $20.00 a hour Full time so most people would think that he have a good “JOB”. I let him vent and stop him by humbly saying to him
“What Did I say last month to you?” Did I say ..
AT ANY GIVEN MOMENT THEY CAN LET YOU GO. LET THIS BE YOUR PLAN B
AT ANY GIVEN MOMENT THEY CAN LET YOU GO. LET THIS BE YOUR PLAN B
He said : Yes you did! Yes you did cousin I don’t even know what to do now, I been with this company so long that I don’t even know how to apply for unemployment
Me: Get in ! This is not coincidence Get in… He said Ok.
I say this to EVERYONE!!!!!! AT ANY GIVEN MOMENT YOUR JOB CAN LET YOU GO, HAVE A PLAN B! They don’t care how long you work there, how good at what you do, How much experiences you have, how many degrees you have, etc….
ITS JUST BUSINESS and they will let you go in a MIN!
ITS JUST BUSINESS and they will let you go in a MIN!
By Reesy Buchanan
From now on when someone presents an opportunity to you should really take a look at it and really decide for yourself. There are so many people that will turn their nose to opportunity without even check out what the person is talking about. That’s not cool. You should always take a look at what they are offering you because what the person may be offering you could make you very wealthy.
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Think about it are you Sabotaging yourself???
As always to your success!
